How Depression Damages Your Relationship & What You Can Do

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I'm sorry for the huge diatribe up there, but I hope you understand where I'm coming from. Never be afraid to look for more information, more data, especially pieces that may challenge your generalizations. If you are regularly seeking reassurance not advice from others, procrastinating, or regularly double- and triple-checking your work, notice what tasks are causing that behavior.

As the other girls mentioned, what are the reasons behind your doubts. However unpleasant the process may be, confronting uncertainty is the only way to return to a point of clarity. It has been a trauma for me to experience such heartbreak and took me a long time to come out of the misery.

How to Know If Your Relationship Doubts Are Deal Breakers (or Totally Normal)

No, I don't think doubts once in a while are reason enough in themselves to just abandon ship and get out of a relationship. Technically, having occasional doubts in each other, or wanting more of certain things is what pushes us to continue bettering ourselves and improving the quality of the relationship the whole way through. I think that's a wise way of looking at it :D Indeed people have their shortcomings, and it's so easy to make a decision you'll later feel sorry about :o So overthink things, and if you consider going away, confront him first with what makes you unhappy. Maybe he'll be happy to do a major effort to change :D I say see where it goes for a while. If you have issue with something then that will become very noticeable that it won't work because that will bug you so much. I'm dating a girl that I have doubts about but her imperfections have not bugged me to much and she is trust worthy even if she is often late. Her other issues have not really stopped us though in the future they might. If you like him see where it does and know that it might not work out. Also talk to him about it and see what he says or does about it. It depends on where your doubts come from. Is it something he does, something he won't do. Is it because if sime attitude ir personality trait he has. With this figured out, in my opinion in the first case you need to analize if the bad overweight the goods and if on when you have doubts in a relationship long run thia thing that bothers you will bother you more or you'll eventually accept or fix it. If it's something about you, then id recommend figuring yourself out as quickly as you can and be honest about it with the other person as not to stretch the inevitable. Every relationship has these moments, especially after fights. Everyone is told the dream is a forever partner. Being with someone forever doesn't mean fairytale bliss. But there is a difference between a tiff and a real issue. Both require time to work through but both shouldn't be disregarded without thought. It really depends what kind of doubts you are having. If your doubts are that your boyfriend will be unfaithful to you and secretly go out with other girls, then it means you shouldn't be in it. Any doubts about trusting the other person indicates that your relationship is not strong as love is built on trust. However, if you are having doubts about whether it will work or not in the future, considering you are enjoying your time with him presently then it could just mean that you are scared of getting hurt and need to confront him or believe in it more, which will come as your relationship deepens. If you are having doubts because you see imperfections or flaws in the person which have become a problem and keep telling yourself that well, 'nobodys perfect' that could also be another indication that you shouldn't be in it. If you really love him you would see past his flaws but be honest enough to tell him what you dont like as well.

Hi Buck, thanks for all this sharing. Nothing succeeds all the time. Now that we are engaged I mostly have self-doubts about being able to be a good wife, etc. Now he seemed to have much doubts going on in his head, about his future, what he wants to do in the end, being succesful, he doubts if we are compatible, he even doubts what love is and what he feels, and asked for time to think. Do I not appreciate him fully. I feel attracted to someone else. Take small steps toward your goal. In order to let go of your doubts, you need to understand them, and turn them into positives. It may help you to share your feelings below, though. This is your inner self screaming for you to take care of yourself. I have told him in a good conversation on the phone, that it has been my fault to make him doubt, and that he is the love of my life, and that he will be my love forever. It's tough to say this, but it's true.