My Fiance of 7 Years Won’t Marry Me! Should I Stay Or Should I Go?

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It is scary to be suddenly single at 30, but thrilling to have taken charge of my own life without waiting around for someone else to figure out if they wanted to be with me. Hannah Seligson: Right, so this brings up the issue of whether men need an incentive to propose. Weve been so close that I am sure if I left him it would be so hard for him to get over me. She does not know that he is seeing me.

I'm so ready to get married, but he has negative views of marriage he's a child of divorce and grew up in a messed-up family. It can be a big deal for a guy and I know he has the feeling of getting one crack to make it perfect. Her self-respect is calling.

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I am conflicted with my feelings and afraid I am overreacting but I just get really depressed when I think about my situation. My boyfriend 30 years old and I 26 years have been dating for a little over 8 years now. We both work full time and make a combined 60k. We are still living at home with our parents. Bf keeps saying he wishes we were living together and that we should be married by now but says he has no money. BF makes more than I do but unfortunately is still giving money to his 42 year old half sister. She makes about the same amount as my bf but she is always hitting him up for money she never talks to him unless she needs money.... My boyfriend is struggling himself and has been paying his rent and bills all by himself and his dad, who moved back in with him it was the dad's apt to begin with is not helping out with rent or the bills because the dad spends it all on his gas guzzler of a car that he drives to chauffeur his girlfriend around. My mom pointed out this will always be a problem and he will always choose the half sister over me and whatever kids we may have. She said he wont be able to buy our kids school supplies because he is too busy sending her money exaggeration possibly but just an example. Today my boyfriend's dad found out he has colon cancer... Boyfriend said he will probably have to take over dad's company which means he will be working every night, 7 days a week. My boyfriend and I had a talk today and it seems like we are not going to be moving in together for another year or two at least. He seems really down but says financially it is hard right now and he wishes he could make double what he is now. I just don't know what to do. What do you think? I'm afraid that he's not going to change, and your instincts are correct that he'll through compulsion place other people over you and any kids you might have. It's a terrible stress to try to bring up kids in impoverishment. I hope your boyfriend gets counselling. It seems that he comes from a family embroiled in some kind of addiction and codependency. And he's a part of that. These a very strong forces and don't change overnight. I don't want to tell you to leave, as that's something you'll have to figure out for yourself. But your needs are being met. You're young, but life goes very fast. Love and respect yourself. Strive to be happy. I would listen to your Mum. In the long run are you really going to be happy in the situation you are in now? You do not have to stay and deal with that. I know it is hard. But in the long run you will probably feel relieved you are not involved in all of that when you don't have to be. Agree with the post above. None of this will change. I agree, I don;'t think he will ever change. The whole thing with the father is sad no doubt but is it realistic for my boyfriend to be paying for the medical bills he says it is and every child pays for their parents? The father hasn't been to the doctor in over a decade and chose to buy a fancy car that he doesn't need instead of health insurance. He doesn't pay my boyfriend rent, either. I can't come at my boyfriend with these concerns because he is feeling down right now so I will try to be there for him. But the whole situation just makes me sad. I'm not sure if I will ever have a life with him. His father and sister are adults. He isn't responsible for them. His dad will bankrupt the family business with his medical bills, leaving his son with nothing. You should leave him because you have grown up and he hasn't. Think of how you will feel in another five years with a guy who is bankrupt because of his dad's medical bills. Similar Threads Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post sweetpea00 Dating 5 9th March 2011 3:35 PM sweetpea00 Breaks and Breaking Up 1 9th March 2011 2:53 PM Egoolps Dating 9 15th June 2008 9:25 PM tontitadeamor Getting Married 1 11th October 2007 3:15 AM techgirl Dating 11 28th December 2006 3:56 PM.

Sound off in the comments. December 5, 2011, 1:29 am i have a few questions and i would love it if i can get any sort of advice this website was helpful but i still confused about things……ok well i met this guy and and have been talking to him for about two months now but first meeting him right then and there we clicked he has alot of things that happened in his past and im trying to be supportive about it. She thinks this is also attributed to why she dates long distance. February 15, 2011, 2:03 am -Wow, this blog is exactly what i needed to read…i am in the same situation and brought dating 7 years still not engaged the subject to him earlier as a matter of fact. Think about it as a favor to your unborn children. His brother knows about me or so he saids. To enter into a common-law marriage, a couple generally has to satisfy these requirements: be eligible to be married and cohabitate in one of the places that recognize common-law marriage, intend to be married and hold themselves out in public as a married couple. I wish he could open his eyes and see, it was a mistake on his parents part to find such a girl for him. He is blocking you from the good life you are meant to have.